Someone once told me, “At the beginning of the test faith is
challenged. At the end of the test faith is rewarded. But in the
middle of the test faith is strengthened.” I love the way The Message version puts
it, “Consider it a sheer gift, friends, when tests and challenges come at you
from all sides. You know that under pressure, your faith-life is forced into
the open and shows its true colors. So don’t try to get out of anything
prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed, not
deficient in any way. If you don’t know what you’re doing, pray to the Father.
He loves to help. You’ll get his help, and won’t be condescended to when you
ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought” (James 1:2-5)
What is it about going through challenges and coming out on
the other side more mature and refined? Remember the 1992 movie A League of
Their Own starring Geena Davis and Tom Hanks? There’s a scene where Dottie
(Geena Davis) tells Jimmy (Tom Hanks) that she is going home to Oregon instead
of playing with the team in the league’s world series. Jimmy tries to persuade
her to stay, but Dottie responds, “It just got too hard.” Jimmy’s next line has
stayed with me over the years:
“The hard is what
makes it great.”
There is something to be said about embracing and overcoming
a challenge. Whatever your personal feelings on Alabama Crimson Tide or their
coach, Nick Saban, I think he got it exactly right when he said this after
winning the 2018 National Championship against Georgia:
“If you can’t overcome
hard, you’re never going to have any great victories in your life.”
My Story of Overcoming Hard
On this date eight years ago, I was diagnosed with leukemia.
A few months later as I completed treatment, our family thought it was all
behind us. But exactly a year after the original diagnosis, leukemia came
roaring back. My only life-saving option was a bone marrow transplant, and my
sister was found to be a perfect match for me.
On the evening before I started treatment that would take
me an inch above death in order to accept my sister’s cells, I just wanted to
run away. There was only a 50% survival rate for bone marrow transplant, not to
mention so many things that could go wrong later in life after transplant. But
I knew if I didn’t embrace transplant, my life here on earth would be over.
By embracing transplant and pressing through the
difficult road ahead, several good things happened. A year after transplant, I
walked my daughter down the aisle. Three years after transplant, I saw my
oldest son graduate from the Air Force Academy and shake the Vice President’s
hand as he crossed the stage. I got to see my youngest son grow into a young
man. And finally, I have been blessed with two beautiful grandchildren. I would
not have been able to experience these wonderful milestones if I had chosen not
to embrace transplant.
Has it been hard? Absolutely yes. And my journey isn’t over.
Three years ago, leukemia came back in the form of a solid brain tumor. It took
everything I had, nearly two years, to recover from that 9-hour surgery. Over
the last 8 years I have spent 160 nights in a hospital, received 40 red blood
transfusions, 55 platelet transfusions, 12 radiation treatments, and countless
rounds of chemotherapy. I am grateful to be alive. The hard is what makes life
great; by overcoming the hard, I have experienced great victories.
I have faced the deep reality of going through something
incredibly difficult…and getting through to the other side. It was awful to go
through; it took me to the point of just inches away from death. But I can say
on this side of it, I’ve learned so much about myself and so much about God’s
amazing love in the storm. I’ve heard it said that you never know what you are
made of until you go through something hard, embrace the challenge, and press
through to the other side. It matures you, strengthens your perseverance, and
allows you to develop a generous spirit to serve and comfort others who are
going through a difficult challenge. You will discover both gratitude and a
generous heart of serving others on the other side of the struggle. It’s the
hard that makes the overcoming worth it in the end.
Amazed by His Love,
Terence
